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Relationship, Sex Therapy, & Intimacy Coaching

Available for hourly sessions!

Relationship, Sex Therapy, and Coaching to Improve Sexual Relationships

Desire OKC is proud to offer relationship, sex, and intimacy coaching and classes to clients who desire a more fulfilling sexual relationship. Our clients may be experiencing a variety of sexual concerns, such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, vaginismus (pain during sex), low sex drive, sexual trauma, a lack of a romantic connection, and an overall lack of trust with their partner.


Often sexual problems are really a symptom of mental health disorders, life stress, or past trauma. Understanding the myriad of external and internal influences will improve your sexual desire and intimacy.

A Safe Exploration of Your Intimacy, Sexual History and Relationship Challenges

Everyone deserves a satisfying intimate and connected sex life; we work together to help you learn the tools to overcome sexual challenges. Sex therapy and intimacy coaching does not involve any form of touch by the practitioner. It does involve a safe exploration of your intimacy, sexual history, and any issues that you feel might be holding you back.


Desire OKC is owned and operated by Charity Danker, sexologist and certified sex therapist, intimacy coach, somatic sex educator, and certified orgasmic meditation life coach and trainer.

New Offers:

Couple’s Intensive Weekend

This is a therapeutic and coaching weekend for couples that want to do the hard work all in one weekend. It is a combination of therapy and coaching for bonding, healing, improving communication, and intimate connection. This weekend can also be used for exploring sexuality, opening up the relationship, developing contracts for ethical non-monogamy, or other variations. 

When:

  • Only offered monthly, must be scheduled via email or phone
  • You may choose between 1 day (6 hours) or 2 days (12 hours)

Call us at (405) 420-7877 to schedule (not offered for scheduling online).

Charity’s Motto:

Sex is Beautiful, Love Thyself

“As a sex therapist and coach, I strongly encouraged my clients to treat the body like a vessel. Regular massages, soaking in the bathtub, saunas, cupping, or any type of body work/self-care is good for the body and more importantly, the soul. I encourage anyone suffering with a dissatisfied sexual life or libido to love thyself first.“

- Charity

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