Committed to Helping You Live a Healthier Life



Our goal at DesireOKC is to teach individuals and couples how to have sacred sex, accept their bodies, and live a healthy life. Setting aside preconceived societal and environmental notions of how their sex and relationships should look; All while giving themselves permission to have the life and the intimacy they truly desire.

Give yourself permission to live in your pleasure. Explore the possibilities of communicating and expressing yourself clearly and with emotional intelligence.

We accept cash, credit cards, and HSA/FSA


Hello, I’m Charity your Sexologist. I am a Certified Sex Therapist, Somatic Sex Educator, and Certified Orgasmic Meditation Life Coach and Trainer. I am also Ordained so I can assist you with your marriage or commitment ceremony. 

I am passionate about positive sex education and empowering individuals to love themselves and live authentically. The most fulfilling part of the day is witnessing clients reach greater happiness and satisfaction with themselves and/or in their relationships. I look forward to meeting with you and helping you live a richly rewarding and authentic life.

Every individual’s needs are unique. Every couple’s needs are unique. That’s why we work with you to create personalized plans meeting your specific desires, needs and goals. DesireOKC is LGBTQ+ sensitive and we support Kink/Fetish, Polyamorous, and other non-traditional relationship configurations.

Even I have a unique story. Read about my OM story on the Orgasmic Meditation page.

My methods include carefully helping you analyze the root of your concerns, building healthy communication skills, set boundaries, and ultimately overcome emotional or relational challenges. I will listen to your requests and prepare a customized plan.  

Contact me today to schedule your session. 

Phone: 405-254-0926                Email: